My Family Culture

OMG! Hardest post EVER! For me this is probably the most challenging assignment I have had yet. I envy my colleagues who are tussling with all of these wonderful objects they have that they just can't decide over which to take and which to leave behind. And I'm looking around and can't pinpoint anything that I cherish that much!

I actually don't like this assignment. I think it is interesting, but I would have preferred it to be about survival instead of culture because I know exactly what I would take for an emergency evacuation. But, that's evacuating here with the infrastructure intact.

The assignment says I will have my immediate family with me. Once I read this, I didn't need anything else. If I had to evacuate, all I would want is my immediate family. Yes, I would hope my extended family is evacuated, but that's another assignment.
So, this became very challenging for me. In reality, all I would need is my family and I would move on. Would I need money? Is the U.S. currency going to be worthless or will I be able to exchange it? Wouldn't I need money to start over? My wants are all the things we have to leave behind.

So I reread the directions, things that I hold dear. Think harder.
I decided the three things I hold dear are:

1. My MacBook. Well, my IPad is smaller. I'll take that.
2. Photos of my husband, children, and dogs in a small album.
3. The small file I keep that contains birth certificates, marriage license, social security cards, and financial documents.

In explaining what these items mean to me: My IPad is the electronic version of life. I can virtually connect and communicate with people from all over the world; my photos would hold my memories of my family that I cherish; the file contains documentation of who we are.

Now, they tell me to give up something and choose. I'll keep my photo album. Although we are all together, I have no way of knowing if we will all survive. I don't know if they use electronics in this new culture. What if I can't take new pictures once we arrive? What if someone becomes ill? I would lose my loved one, but still have pictures to remind me of his/her smile; I could look at him/her everyday and think about all of the things we did when that photo was taken. I can't rely on my memory. I don't even remember what I just ate for breakfast an hour ago! I need the visuals.

What I learned about myself is that I cherish my family more than any of the things I own. What I learned about my family culture is that our truest values are how we care for and about each other. We need each other.

The insight I gained about cultural differences is that there may be differences so significant that you lose some of your social identities and will have to adapt to a new way of living and even thinking. In this assignment, leaving my culture may have meant losing my socioeconomic status, my vocation, my hobbies and interests, maybe my preferred food choices, and possibly some of my beliefs.

I thought about this a little more. I had been thinking of this assignment in the extreme; being forced to evacuate without any knowledge of where I was going. I had this "Gilligan Island"type of vision.
In reality, isn't this what immigrants face when they leave their countries? The American or Western culture is everywhere, but it can be quite different when you adopt a culture while living in your home country from having to adapt to and assimilate into a culture in another country.